Dear Friends,
Two weeks ago, our entire lives were turned upside down when Hurricane Helene raced over Western North Carolina, bringing rain and wind that our beautiful rolling mountains just couldn’t handle.
The wind whipped over our majestic pines and oaks and cracked them like toothpicks. The rain was relentless, dumping inches hour after hour. Our entire family sought refuge in our basement as we listened to the trees snapping around us. From the first hour of the howling winds, we were cut off from the world with no power, no wifi, and our phones reading only SOS. We had no way to communicate or get storm information and it felt so scary.
As a meteorologist who grew up in Florida and worked through our last big storms in Asheville—Frances, Ivan, and Jeanne—I was watching this storm, and I knew it was going to be bad. But never in a million years did I imagine it would be this bad. The best analogy I've heard is that this was like asking Miami to be prepared for a blizzard.
We just were not ready. The geography of the mountains and the tree canopy we all love so much could not handle the storm.
When we finally were able to leave our house after the storm, we found that even with 10 trees down in the yard, we were very very lucky because none of them were on the house. Houses in our neighborhood had trees on them and we quickly learned that we were trapped in our neighborhood due to the amount of trees down blocking all the roads around us. Nearly all of the power lines sitting on the ground. Our neighbors were all walking around looking shell-shocked.
Once we found ways to get more news we heard about the destruction in Asheville- sweet Biltmore Village was unrecognizable again and the River Arts district with so many of our favorite local spots has just vanished into piles of smelly mud and debris. The flood waters reached places they had never gone before.
But this storm took so much more than those popular tourist areas that you are seeing on the news. The water was relentless and spilled down into the valleys causing so much flooding and mudslides. There were countless trees on homes. We found out that over 400 landslides took entire neighborhoods and families out. The mud just swallowed up everything downhill. Some small towns and communities had been swept down the rivers. Even tiny mountain creeks turned into raging wild rivers never seen before. So many people didn't make it. We have friends who have lost their businesses, homes, cars, and even family members.
Losses like this in one mountain town would be devastating but the destruction is in town after town after town. So many of our beloved mountain communities will never be the same. The devastation is more than words can really describe and unless you really know these places and the geography of the mountains, it's hard to understand how bad it really is. The economy and landscape will be forever changed.
My heart has been broken into a million pieces over and over the past two weeks hearing about people and places that will never be the same. I'm tired and emotionally exhausted from it all. Every day has felt like a roller coaster of emotions.
I wrote a post the Thursday afternoon before it hit, hoping we'd go back to life as normal the next day, but two weeks later is the first I've been able to sit and reflect on everything. Life has been far from normal. We have been so lucky not to have damage on our house, that I have some survivors guilt. I feel guilty complaining about the inconveniences of not having power, water, or school when so many people have lost so much more. I'm worried about my boys and how they will handle being out of school for who knows how long. As a planner, I'm feeling lost without a plan.
We finally got non drinkable water and power back at the house and we ordered a Starlink so we'll hopefully have wifi again soon and life will start to feel normal again. Many parts of Asheville will not have water for many more weeks as the water system was nearly destroyed in all of it. I know I'm lucky in all of this, but wow it has been a lot to handle. We are ok though. We are strong and will get through this.
Please keep my beloved Asheville and WNC in your prayers. Recovery from this storm is going to take years and years. It's not over and we'll need support for the long haul. I can't even imagine how much money it will take for all of these homes and businesses to rebuild. The impacts of this storm will run deep for many years.
Thank you for supporting my little site, caring about my little family, and reading my ramblings. I appreciate your support more than anything.
I'm hoping to get back to our new normal routine, including posting here as soon as I can. Looking forward to some happier times ahead.
Love, Julie
Susan Rawls says
Thank you Julie for the update. Glad you and your family are doing okay with all that happened. So many of us here in Greenville SC are keeping WNC in our prayers. Praying for a speedy recovery for everyone.
Kathy owensby says
Hey Julie,
I live close by in Rutherfordton. We only went without power for 5 days, only ran the generator for a fan an a window unit for one of my sons at night.
It seems like our lives are forever changed...Chimney Rock and Lake Lure and so many towns destroyed. The main thing is the lives that were lost! God be with their families and friends.
Even though I have grown sons I worry about how this is affecting them. It is a shock!
God will heal our hearts in time.
I am so glad you and your family are ok and thankful your house was not damaged.
Please keep us posted, hug those cute boys!
Love your friend,
Kathy
Jim & Flo Christoffersen says
You have been in our thoughts and prayers. Thanks for your update. We have been following you since moving from Etowah, 16 yrs ago. My wife and I lived in your area and can personally feel the pain and agony being experienced by all those affected. We also lost power, Internet and phone here in SC. Like you, we are now going to get a good generator to be better prepared! During my 86 years living North and South, I've never experienced a storm like this. We send our prayers and blessings to you and family, and all those who are struggling to put their lives back together.
Jill says
Thanks for this post Julie. I have actually been very concerned for you & your family. It's funny how you cannot know someone personally but worry about them at the same time. I've followed you for quite a few years and I know how important Asheville is to you. We are keeping the community in our thoughts and prayers. I cannot imagine what everyone is going through.
So glad you are safe
Wendy says
Thank you for the update. I understand the guilt--heck, I hate to even share posts about the beautiful fall we've been having. I know you're grateful for what you have and that is ok. Hang in there Julie.
Candina says
Yeah, I get the guilt. We barely had any damage at my house, then Saturday evening they got our power back, and because I have satellite internet I had internet when many people didn't. After the phone came back on things are practically normal for us. I feel bad for doing so well.
Kristina says
Thank you for putting into such well written words what so many of us are experiencing and feeling. Though things will not be the same, God will bring us through. I pray for comfort, strength, and hope for everyone in WNC.